Sexual trauma is a very complex subject and there are so many layers to unpack in order to get to the root

It is commonly believed that sexual trauma is limited to rape and molestation but the only real parameter to define sexual trauma is the sensation of the body that experienced it. 

Sexual trauma is created by any sexual advance that was not welcome, understood, or enjoyed.    

There are many ways of healing sexual trauma but I’ve found that the Tantric approach to healing sexual trauma is able to transmute the energy at a much faster rate. Not only does the tantric approach to healing sexual trauma release the traumatic energies from the body, but it transmutes these energies into raw power that you can use to reclaim and express your sexuality, experience inner wholeness, and begin attracting a different reality in your life. 

Sexual shame prevents a woman from fully embracing her sexuality. This shame is traumatic to the energy centers. Even if there is no clear memory of sexual trauma,  the shame around your sexual energy, creates a trauma response in your body. 

There is a gray area of sexual trauma that may include scenarios of being drunk, tired, or confused and not wanting a sexual advance but submitting to it out of fear, helplessness, or inability to speak up for yourself.

Maybe it’s trauma created by a lustful or violent glance you experienced when you were too young that made you feel uncomfortable in your sexuality, or maybe you experienced textbook sexual trauma.

Whatever the color, depth, and intensity of your sexual trauma, Tantra can help reclaim the lost part of yourself and experience power in a way that you never experienced before.

A woman who has experienced sexual trauma has a really difficult time receiving love, affection, money, abundance, and masculine energy in general. It creates hyper-independence but with a constant sensation of grasping for more.

If you have sexual trauma, you can see it reflected in your relationships by attracting men who are either disconnected from their own sexuality or too lustful in its expression. The key giveaway is the polarization of the energy, sexuality is not balanced in your relationships.

There are also feelings of unworthiness, internalized shame, and guilt for most things that happen in your life. Lack of confidence or overconfidence hiding a deep insecurity.

Can you see the pattern of extremes?

These are some of the many symptoms of sexual trauma stored in your body. However, there is a silver lining: the depth of emotion that you are harnessing due to your sexual trauma is untapped energy to alchemize and transmute into power.

I decided to create this course because I wanted to give women like me something that I wished I had when I started this process.

The actual process can feel scary because it is stepping into the unknown. Thanks to energetic healing, this process doesn't have to take years. You can intentionally work on your energetic centers and let your life move you into the experiences that will weave together and repair the fragmentation that happens in our sexual centers after experiencing trauma.

I’ve had a very complex relationship with my sexuality. It started off when I was a little girl and a family friend looked at me in such a disgusting way that I couldn’t sleep for days… I was 6.

As I grew into my body and began attracting the negative kind of attention, I experienced multiple experiences of sexual harassment at ages 10, 13, and 14.

I was unable to get help and when I asked for help, the people around me told me to forget about it and let it go because that’s what being a woman costs.

This created an imprint of sexual trauma that kept attracting into my life more and more situations that pushed me towards unwanted sexual experiences.

During a very unstable season of my life, I had completely blurred out the lines of my sexual boundaries and put myself in situations that left me paralyzed in shame. My sexual energy was completely eclipsed by toxic shame. 

This created a fragmentation within myself where I separated my spirituality and heart from my sexuality. I wasn't conscious of this so life corrected this with a traumatic sexual event that led me into a healing journey.

I found plant medicine, therapy, and tantric philosophies that allowed me to begin healing from shame, guilt, unworthiness, and developmental wounds.

This process was intense and scary but it felt like coming back to myself.

This process led me down a journey of understanding sexuality from a non-dual angle, the mechanics of sexual trauma, the movement of the energy, and the tantric technology of weaving together the fragmented parts of the self.

When I finally freed myself from the energetic imprint of my shame and  trauma, my life dramatically changed. Everything from my past that was in alignment with the traumatized version of myself was destroyed and I found myself in a completely new life, in a new country with new friends, nourishing relationships, and partners that are gentle, respectful, and devoted to feminine energy.

In this course, I outline the process I went through to heal my sexual trauma and shift the energy to accept this as raw power that was available to me.
The correlation between sexuality and power is deeper than we can imagine. It is only after we bring back this sense of wholeness that we get to really touch sexual power and its essence.

Sexual empowerment is free of shame. Letting go of sexual shame creates sexual independence and inner freedom. This is revolutionary because a sexually emancipated woman cannot be controlled.

Maybe you’ve tried to address it in the past but if you’re still dealing sexual or financial blockages, you’ve been missing an effective process that will free your from sexual shame.

There is no need for retreat, intensive hours of somatic work, years of therapy, or submission to the traumatized version of yourself.

Learn to weave sounds and movement into your everyday life and observe how these simple practices can transform your life and empower you to take ownership of your sexual energy so you’ll never experience the paralyzing effects of sexual shame

This healing process will make you immune to your sacred sexual energy ever feeling judged by others!